Spouses Treating Each Other Kindly

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6 11 2008

It was narrated from ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“If a woman does her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: Enter whichever of the gates of Paradise you want.”

Narrated by Ahmad (1/191). The editors of al-Musnad said: It is hasan li ghayrihi (hasan because of corroborating evidence). It was classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1932).

It was narrated from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“Shall I not tell you about your men in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allaah. He said: “The Prophet will be in Paradise, the Siddeeq will be in Paradise, the man who visits his brother who lives far away and visits him only for the sake of Allaah will be in Paradise. Shall I not tell you about your women in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allaah. He said: “The loving and fertile one who, if she gets angry or is mistreated or her husband gets angry says, ‘Here is my hand in your hand, I shall not sleep until you are pleased.’”

Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Mu’jam al-Awsat (2/206). It was also narrated from a number of other Sahaabah, hence it was classed as hasan by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (3380) and in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1942).

And it was narrated from Husayn ibn Muhsin (may Allaah be pleased with him) that his paternal aunt went to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning some need and he met her need, then he said: “Do you have a husband?” She said: Yes. He said: “How are you with him?” She said: I do what he tells me, except what is beyond me. He said: “Look at how you are with him, for he is your Paradise and your Hell.”

Narrated by Ahmad (4/341). The editors of al-Musnad said: Its isnaad may be understood to be hasan. al-Mundhiri said: A jayyid (good) isnaad. It was classed as saheeh by al-Haakim in al-Mustadrak (6/383) and al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1933).

Al-Manaawi said in Fayd al-Qadeer (3/60):

i.e., he is the cause of your entering Paradise if he is pleased with you, and the cause of your entering Hell if he is displeased with you. So treat him well and do not disobey his commands with regard to that which is not a sin. End quote.

As for the glad tidings which came to the husband who treats his wife kindly, it is when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) testified that he had perfect faith which dictated that he should enter Paradise, and that he is superior to all people.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“The most perfect of the believers in faith is the one who is best in attitude, and the best of you is the one who is best in attitude towards his womenfolk.”

Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1162); he said it is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. It was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Mighty lone sheep in the dark

in the name of Allah most gracious most merciful

I bear witness that there is nothing worthy of worship but Allah and Muhammad is is servant and messenger

Mighty lone sheep in the dark

To see the need ,
To feel your stomach turn ,
I know ppl who have been raped chick
I have heard them scream in the hospital
I have held them

I have listen to girls
Break down in tears because of how the were beaten and raped To hear the words “ I cant take it any more “
From this pretty girls with brown green eyes
A muslim chick actually ;

And I just did not want to see any thing happen to U
I have seen and heard thing that haunt me in my dreams
And I just wanted to help ;

So frig U never make the mistake of thinking it is for U
I want nothing form U ,

No food

No help

No fame

Leave me alone
As U all always have ,
Stay in your dammed ivory towers
Ignorant
Lay your ignorant bliss
But never make the mistake of accusing me of that which I did not do
Frik u dam U frik U stupid bastard
I have bleed enough ,
I know my place
I have learnt that lesson by now
You are not really my problem ,

When a friked up world I live in I wanted to change it
To protect something

…… this is what I am
Dam me with a almost medieval sense of honor ,
And I just wanted to help u
I knew that u were alone and afraid
That much was clear
We could have helped
But u all refused ,
So I could not

Frig U,

Frig U ,U stupid bastard if not us then who will help U ,

And know this its not me ,

I am many things That is not one of them ,Never in your life accuse me ,U don’t even know me ,
Where I come form
What I have willingly turned away from
The opportunities I had and said no
U friking stupid idiots
You are friking blind
If u knew who I was , what I was , u would never have said that But u live in the ivory towers Across that border that I never could seem to get across
I guess not having a hizb
What ever ,

Stand alone then
Mighty lone sheep in the darkness
Hear the wolf ,
Feel the icy chill down your spines ;
Feel that he is coming
Live in fear ,

But u don’t want my help fine!
What the frig u want me to do 4 that
I am free from U
I tried
My heart is at rest
Survival of the fittest baby ;the stupid ones die of ,
After all that I still want good 4 U
That is what an ass I am

I guess that’s what got me in to trouble the first place
I AM FREE FROM U , FRIG U , FRIG U ,ALL TO HELL ,
And FRIG U

FriG U

ADHEIM

The Stillness in the Chaos of my mind

The the name of Allah

The Stillness in the Chaos of my mind

Here Alone in the stillness;
The piercing stillness ;
Driving me mad ;
The motionless sounds cave in all around me ;

Seeking refuge in pray ;
The motion of my pen ;
My caged heart yearning to be grow wings
To escape from this place :

But where will I go ;
Am I being punished or tested ;
I will be patient insha Allah ;

I have hope ,
Because not to have hope is to let the silence consume me
The madness take over ;
To let the win ;

I refuse to let it win to kill me ,
So I stand against it ;
The Stillness ý..
And hope that Allah is on my side
Hope that there is something 4 me @ the end of my journey

But the ,is crushing me now ;
I am bleeding ;
How many battles I have lost ;
Times I have been hit

My heart is being bleed dry ;
And my body soon following it ;
You have not known pain until U spit blood
Until U crawl on your knees because U cant stand
All collateral damage in the War against the stillness

And yet I still stand against the stillness;
While many have fallen under the pressure caved ;
And dance in glee in front of me choosing the darkness to the torture of the stillness
And others have grown wings and blended
evolved to hearts becoming one ;

I stand against the Oceans of Stillness
Stillness as far as the eyes can see ;
The horizon flooded and coming in a endless stream to rush up against me
Oh Allah take me away from this this fate
And remember me
And help and reward me .


ADHEIM